Common friends, too. I miss them lots, but they’re her friends, and it’s an unspoken rule when you break up, yeah?
I got to talk to her, once, when I thought my anger died. Told her I still had her ghost around. She said, me too. Said that my ghost was still all over her life, as her current guy is in my old neighborhood. Didn’t prod after that. That being said, that feels like several lifetimes ago now.
I’m not the immediate ex anymore, and I know she’s with someone else, so I guess it’s that much easier for her to exorcise me. Then again, she denies ever being with me.
Her exes haunt her. She used to call me by the name of the immediate ex, too. Hope the new guy doesn’t notice.