Lessons learned after a heartbreak

True. Diyan tugma yung, “it’s not you, it’s me” na linya. Siya ang hinde ready eh. Been there.

The earlier you can get our, move out, away, detach, let go, forget, the better. Habang hindi pa malalim ang invested emotions, kung alam mo na hinde talaga pwed, wag mo na ipilit. Mas masakit pag mas.matagal.

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Magmamahal ka ulit sa tamang panahon at sa taong para kayo talaga sa isa’t isa.

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Kesa mag sumbatan kayo kung ikaw o ex mo may kasalanan bakit nag fail ang relationship niyo, isipin mo na lang na tapos na purpose nyo sa buhay ng isa’t isa kaya naghiwalay na kayo ng landas

Your SO will not complete you. Ikaw lang ang makakabuo sa sarili mo.

Hindi sa kanya umiikot ang mundo.

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Hindi ko kasalanan ang lahat ng mali sa buhay niya.
Hindi ko kailangan siyang isalba sa bawat problema niya.
Hindi ko trabaho ang pagiging happy niya.

She will be fine without you, just as you are fine without her.

Kung wala nang trust, say goodbye. You’re just delaying the inevitable.

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Na ang heartbreak ay di lang from a romantic relationship. But also from a broken friendship, a sudden change of way of life, and leaving a job you love doing. Sobrang sakit mga mamsh.

Kailangan tanggapin ang mga masasakit na nangyari at mag move forward kahit ang hirap.

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Matuto kang magtira para sa sarili mo lalo na kung 'di niya nakikita mga sakripisyo mo para sa kanya.
Kung kayo, kayo talaga. Walang makakapigil doon. Ginawa mo na yung part mo at okay na 'yon. Bahala na siya.

letting go > holding on with pain everyday

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I dont think there is such a thing as “loving too much”, we love as we are, our brand of loving is as unique as our DNA. It’s just your devotion and commitment are sometimes not reciprocated in kind or maybe binibigay natin sa isang taong hindi kaya tanggapin iyon for various reasons that may have nothing to do with us.

My takeaway is dont change the way you love, but be more careful about who you choose to love. You have to give it to someone who will adore you, warts and all and who wants to know about your cracks and imperfections so they know how to love you (sabi nga ng isang quote). The right person will absolutely cherish you and return your love dollar for dollar. The right person will never put you in a position where you are constantly having your sense of self worth and self respect shattered.

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Ito e! :tearseyes:

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Truks :tama: Sabi nga sa Juno (?) someone who thinks rainbows come out of your ass, or something to that effect.

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Respeto muna bago pagmamahal. :headbang:

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Sabi mo nga dati Ate @quarantined “No backsliding.” :laughing:

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Mwahahahahaha, oo ngaaaaa! Those were the days :rotfl:

OnT: Love yourself more. Madali sabihin mahirap gawin. Once you learn it though you’d want to kick yourself in the groin for not believing and doing that sooner.

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Let them go, with love.

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You can never mold a person to fit your fantasies.

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Don’t ever think that you have no choice but to stay on even if you are miserable in that relationship. You always have a choice between misery and happiness. Choose to be happy.

Real love shouldn’t be difficult. If it brings out the worst in you, then you’re with the wrong person.

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Agree ako dito kasi minsan sa maling tao natin naibibigay yung sobrang love na yun. Hinde pa pala sya yung karapatdapat. Kaya hinde ka nya masuklian ng same amount of love dahil hinde pa sya si Mr. right. Someone will come along who will let you feel secure, relaxed, as if everything is falling into its proper place. Then that is when you say, I found the one.

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It is better this way. A little lonelier but better. :crying:

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Take it one day at a time. Wag madaliin ang sarili para magmove on.

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