Dating dealbreakers

Relationships
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Hindi ko “dealbreaker” 'yung DDS-Marcos apologist, or may alanganing politics. More of, filter na yun. I won’t even date them to begin with.

Ang idea ko ng dealbreaker ay yung nag-de-date na kayo (kasi may mga attractive naman siyang katangian), tapos a few dates on, nag-e-emerge yung mga kagaspangan.

Halimbawa:

  • Bastos/demanding sa mga service staff
  • Hindi pa rin naka-move on sa kahit sinong ex niya
  • Walang kahit anong kagustuhan na ma-involve sa gawaing panlipunan

Isip pa ako…

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pag DDS. at pag hindi mahilig manuod ng pelikula

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DDS.

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Ang daming turned off sa DDS hahaha

Sana wala sila dito

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THIS!

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Sa ladies…

  1. Sobrang self-absorbed.
  2. Sobrang vain/trophy. Usually, sila yung tipong ipagpapalit ka kagad once may mas gwapong magparamdam.
  3. Walang passion sa buhay maliban sa cosmetics. Nako. Sobrang nako.
  4. Inconsistent with her principles.
  5. Hindi street smart.
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Saka pala freeloader. It goes both ways

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Before pag magaling kumanta, gwapong gwapo ako. Plus points pag naggigitara…

Pero at this age, pag ang lalaki walang savings, parang “kuya san ka ba galing? At mukang wala ka balak mapuntahan. Bakit wala kang ipon?”

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Anti-vaxxers

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:rotflmao:

and Marcos apologists/revisionists
I view them as the Slytherins and the pureblood butt-lickers and Death eater supporters in our tropical Hogwarts.
anti-vaxxers
flat earther, climate change denier
MAGA hat wearer

dealbreaker: bobo. yun bang pag nag chat/text kayo e alam lang tanunging is kung kumain na ba at ingat sa byahe :twak:

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Yung toxically clingy.
Yung early days, selosa agad.

It will only get worrrrrrrrse.

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Noon, basta good conversationalist, matalino, humorous napapa-:heartpump: na ako, kiber na sa looks. As you go along, biglang makikita mo, medyo may off sa kanya like, sisimpleng aabot ng ulam from MY friend’s plate na kaka-introduce ko palang. O kaya yung na-catfish pala siya ng ex niya at di niya matanggap nung sinabi mo sa kanya. Yun ding sabihan ka na he dated you despite knowing you had a huge crush on one of his orgmates (isumbat ba, e bakit mo ako niyaya?). At higit sa lahat, yung mas malakas pa ako kumain sa kanya. :biglaugh:

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Yung hindi alam ang concept of self-care. Ayoko maging mundo ng isang tao. :expressionless:

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Actually un din intindi ko… :lol:

Dati, deal breaker sa akin ung pagiging doctor, sundalo o seaman… Ngayon, doctor asawa ko. :roll_eyes:

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Narcissist! Signs:

  • Pag laging one-dimensional mga usapan niyo. Puro kanya. Andami mo na alam at na tanong sa mga sinabi niya, pero parang hindi siya interested sa mga shineshare mo
  • walang concept of empathy, selfish
  • loves the good attention (fishing compliments, hogs the spot light if it showcases the good etc)
  • but shies away from/worries a lot about the bad (defensive agad, would rather not talk about weaknesses, can’t handle criticism, would try to hide flaws, hardly apologises, self preservation, blames all but themselves)
  • medyo feeling entitled

I thought, at first, it was just one of those “cute imperfections” na kesyo vain, medyo ma-ere etc na forgiveable. Little did i know, one would eff me up so bad & on nearly all aspects of my life. When I researched on mental health disorders, mala-biography niya ang symptoms ng narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
Now that I know better, the faintest stink of narcissistic behaviour, Ba-yeeeeee! :warning:

And DDS, I cannot :radioactive:

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Someone who can’t carry a conversation and prefers to look at her mobile phone every minute.
Someone overly insecure. It’s tiring to deal with that :hmph:

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Manyak sa start palang :sweat_smile:
At
Dugyot :expressionless:

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DDS and Marcos apologist

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Yow. Hahaha

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Uy! :smile:

Isa pa palang dealbreaker yung hindi inaalagaan ang health niya (especially tumatanda na). For some reason marami akong naeencounter na guys na ayaw magpacheck up (like my dad) and puro self-medication nalang. What’s up with that???