Marami sa umpisa ok daw sila na “hanggang dito ka lang ha” but soon, they will test the waters. Sasabihin mo, teka akala ko ba maliwanag na ito lang muna ang kaya kong ibigay? Tapos pag hinde ka nila mapilit, lalayo na. Then dun mo mafilter na Yun lang pala ang habol. Oh well, sayonara!
Recognize the red flags. Wag magpabulag sa panlabas na anyo
Hindi ako lumalandi eh
All or nothing kase ko. Kung gusto kita, I will pursue you. Kung alam ko wala pupuntahan, titigilan ko.
Bawal lumandi ang di pa ready!
Lalandi tapos iiyak-iyak. Aysuuuus!
Ano yung sinasabe ng mga kids ngayon?? Sana all. haha
For me, landian is meant to be careless. Haha That’s the fun of it. Haha
Kaya ano ako ngayon?
Agree sa setting of expectations. Know the rules of the game and jump in with eyes wide open.
At bawal magpalit ng rules without the consent of both parties
Don’t forget your values just to please that person. Not worth it in the end.
Careful about believing their representations hahaha. Sometimes, vetting can save you the trouble.
Walang available dito para landiin? Haha charot
Responsible ka daw ba? Haha
Yes hahahaha
DTR agad.
be aware, don’t be swayed easily, know that this landi (too) shall pass or not. whatever.
if something came out of it, great. but if nothing, move on (to the next person).
if you hurt someone’s feelings, ask for forgiveness. don’t wave it off.
don’t ghost someone.
just be ready for the consequences and own up to your mistakes when you make landi.
gusto ko to! Dapat ganito! hahaha
wag mag-settle sa less
Eto naman ang gusto ko. Ang hirap kaya na nagwo-wonder kung ano nangyari.
Naguluhan ako sa DTR, kala ko mag-time in and time-out sa relationship, figuratively speaking. Ginoogle ko tuloy. Sa mga titos and titas like me, DTR is “define the relationship”.
On the topic: landi responsibly by being honest - with your expectations, aspirations (haha) at sexual history.
Kung pure fleeting landian lang, wag mo iexpect na exclusive. Lalo na kung online mo na-meet. Sureball may kasabay ka. Because honestly, walang masama kung lalandi ka nang sabay-sabay. Hindi kayo.
Pero ibang usapan na pag may intention ka na beyond landi. Kung gusto mo na siya beyond landian, isa isa lang. And make it explicit na siya lang ang pinopormahan mo.
Rule # 1 Landiin palagi ang iyong one and only partner. Focus lang sa kanya. Mas masaya yung may exclusivity kesa sa ang daming kalandian.
Rule #2 Kung may lumandi syo na hindi mo partner, refer to rule # 1